Wednesday, March 20, 2013

Grace for All

What is grace?

  • a manifestation of favor, especially by a superior: It was only through the dean's grace that I wasn't expelled from school. forgiveness, charity, mercifulness. animosity, enmity, disfavor.
  • mercy; clemency; pardon: He was saved by an act of grace from the governor. lenity, leniency, reprieve. harshness. (http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/grace?s=t G 
Grace is mercy, pardon, forgiveness.  When you are given grace, you are granted something good (forgiveness and absolution) instead of something bad when you really  deserve it (punishment, consequences).

Ephesians 1:3-10
Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us in the heavenly realms with every spiritual blessing in Christ. For he chose us in him before the creation of the world to be holy and blameless in his sight. In love he predestined us for adoption to sonship through Jesus Christ, in accordance with his pleasure and will— to the praise of his glorious grace, which he has freely given us in the One he loves. In him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of sins, in accordance with the riches of God’s grace that he lavished on us. With all wisdom and understanding, he made known to us the mystery of his will according to his good pleasure, which he purposed in Christ, 10 to be put into effect when the times reach their fulfillment—to bring unity to all things in heaven and on earth under Christ.

We, as the children of God, do not deserve His grace or forgiveness.  But God, being the all-powerful, loving God that He is, chose to give it to us before we were born, before our parents or grandparents were born, and before the world itself was "born" and created.  God isn't like we are--He gave us His grace freely, without any good or love on our part, with no strings attached, and despite our countless sins against Him.

The thought that someone would not only forgive but also give full grace and mercy to one who killed His son, disobeys and dishonors Him constantly, to one who is an adulterer, a murderer, a liar, and a thief is mind-blowing, yet that is exactly what God has done for each and every one of His children.  We who daily commit the sins in Matthew 5:

21 “You have heard that it was said to the people long ago, ‘You shall not murder, and anyone who murders will be subject to judgment.’ 22 But I tell you that anyone who is angry with a brother or sister will be subject to judgment. Again, anyone who says to a brother or sister, ‘Raca,’ is answerable to the court. And anyone who says, ‘You fool!’ will be in danger of the fire of hell.
 
27 “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ 28 But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. 29 If your right eye causes you to stumble, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to be thrown into hell. 30 And if your right hand causes you to stumble, cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to go into hell.

We sin in our minds, with our bodies, and in our hearts, and yet God offers us grace.  How much more so should we, who deserve death, extend grace to others?
 
How can/do we show grace?  Again, from Matthew 5:

38 “You have heard that it was said, ‘Eye for eye, and tooth for tooth.’ 39 But I tell you, do not resist an evil person. If anyone slaps you on the right cheek, turn to them the other cheek also. 40 And if anyone wants to sue you and take your shirt, hand over your coat as well. 41 If anyone forces you to go one mile, go with them two miles. 42 Give to the one who asks you, and do not turn away from the one who wants to borrow from you. 

43  “You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ 44 But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, 45 that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. 46 If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? 47 And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? 48 Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.

This is so difficult to do.  When someone sins against us or hurts us, our first inclination is to hurt them back.  If someone gossips about us, we jump to say something nasty about them.  However, I am reminded of Matthew 18:

21 Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, “Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? Up to seven times?”
22 Jesus answered, “I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times.
23 “Therefore, the kingdom of heaven is like a king who wanted to settle accounts with his servants. 24 As he began the settlement, a man who owed him ten thousand bags of gold was brought to him. 25 Since he was not able to pay, the master ordered that he and his wife and his children and all that he had be sold to repay the debt.
26 “At this the servant fell on his knees before him. ‘Be patient with me,’ he begged, ‘and I will pay back everything.’ 27 The servant’s master took pity on him, canceled the debt and let him go.
28 “But when that servant went out, he found one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred silver coins. He grabbed him and began to choke him. ‘Pay back what you owe me!’ he demanded.
29 “His fellow servant fell to his knees and begged him, ‘Be patient with me, and I will pay it back.’
30 “But he refused. Instead, he went off and had the man thrown into prison until he could pay the debt. 31 When the other servants saw what had happened, they were outraged and went and told their master everything that had happened.
32 “Then the master called the servant in. ‘You wicked servant,’ he said, ‘I canceled all that debt of yours because you begged me to. 33 Shouldn’t you have had mercy on your fellow servant just as I had on you?’ 34 In anger his master handed him over to the jailers to be tortured, until he should pay back all he owed.
35 “This is how my heavenly Father will treat each of you unless you forgive your brother or sister from your heart.”
 
As God has cancelled our debt, so we should forgive the sins of others. 
 
It is easier to do this when it is a friend or someone we love who says or does something that hurts us, but when it is someone whom we already dislike or try to avoid, it becomes more difficult.  Who really wants to be nice to someone who isn't nice to you?  Who really wants to forgive someone who is nasty and has hurt you?  I don't.  Not naturally.  It doesn't come easily most times.  Yet this is exactly what God has commanded for us to do.  Back to Matthew 5:
 
43  “You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ 44 But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, 45 that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. 46 If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? 47 And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? 48 Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.

Anyone can be nice to those who are nice to them, any one can love those who love them, and anyone forgives those with whom they are close . . . but God calls Christians to love their enemies, to do good to them and not harm, to repay evil with good.  

Romans 12 says:

14 Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse. 15 Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn. 16 Live in harmony with one another. Do not be proud, but be willing to associate with people of low position. Do not be conceited.
17 Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everyone. 18 If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. 19 Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: “It is mine to avenge; I will repay,” says the Lord. 20 On the contrary:
“If your enemy is hungry, feed him;
    if he is thirsty, give him something to drink.
In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head."
21 Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.

This is where being a Christian is hard.  We, in our sinful natures, do no naturally want to do this; furthermore, it is difficult enough with our regenerate hearts.  However, in following this command of God, we are not only obeying Him, but we are also shining out His love for the world to see.

 
 

1 comment:

a.friend said...

You are so wise for one so young. I think it's great that you are using your gifts to minister to others. There are so many things that young girls need to learn from a godly older woman. Keep up the good work. I am sure God must be very pleased.